5 THINGS YOU NEED FOR UNITY ON YOUR TEAM
All of us are a part of some sort of team.
Whether it is your family, your co-workers, your church, or a club you belong to, everyone is a part of a team.
Unfortunately that doesn't mean everyone is a part of a healthy team, or a team that operates from a place of unity.
Reality is, we all likely have a story about a toxic team, or an unhealthy environment we have been a part of.
One thing I am sure we could all agree on, unity is awesome and lack of unity isn't any fun.
So here are 5 things, I believe will help any team, regardless of the type or size, grow in unity.
1. Truth in Love
Many people choose to live on one side or the other of this issue.
Some say they want to love people. So they only say nice things, and if they can't think of something encouraging, they choose to say nothing. They don't want to hurt people, so they stick to loving uplifting statements only.
The other group of people are the truth police. They walk around pointing out the faults and mistakes of others. They leave behind a trail of insecurity and hurt feelings, all while flying their banner of truth.
Both of these people are wrong. Real love means being honest with each other. Truth without love for people is just meanness.
To be a part of a team that lives in unity, you need to commit to being honest with each other. This means communicating truthfully, but in a way that clearly expresses your care for the other person.
2. Celebrate Each Others Ups
I remember a long time ago I was with a friend who was honored in a really cool way. He had done something pretty remarkable, and was received the kudos he was clearly due. The problem was, I was sick with envy and frustration that he was getting it.
I found myself visibly upset, because someone else was getting praise. After that day, I committed to God I never wanted to find myself in that position ever again. I have since used my response to others victories as a meter for how healthy I am. If others are experiencing a great moment, and I am having to force a smile, there is some work that needs to be done in my heart.
To have unity, you need to learn to be just as happy for your team members victory, as you are for your own.
3. Grieve Each Others Downs
The other side of this issue is when your teammates are having a bad day, or experiencing a down moment.
This principle works the same way, but in reverse. When your teammate is down, are you glad they are down and not you? Or do you want to help them back up?
Use these moments as a self check. If you see them down and out, and you are having to fight off a smile, there is some serious work that needs to be done in your heart.
You will never find a sense of unity if you aren't able to empathize with your team member in their low moments.
4. Think Team Win, not the Individual Win
The natural follow up to these last two ideas is this simple concept. You have to view wins and losses as a team, not as individuals. If one of your team members is down, you are down too. If one of your team members is being celebrated, your team is being celebrated too.
This mentality will greatly help you in how you respond to your teams current circumstance. If you take your teams current standing personally, you will be invested in their ability to bounce back, and you will have a sense of personal accomplishment when they knock something out of the park.
Unity is not only working together, it is realizing you rise and fall together as well.
5. Make Room For Others
I think the underlining issue that makes some of these steps difficult to walk out, is we believe that there is only so much acclamation to be had. We believe there is only so many "atta boys" that can be given, and a very small platform for the victors.
That simply isn't true.
There is room for all of us to succeed, there is room for many to shine. Even more than that, the team victory is so much better than individual one.
This is my list of what it takes to make unity. What would you add to the list? Or what would you take off?